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Responsible adult with a digital calendar

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I’m a responsible adult with a digital calendar, says Paul Kafasis:

I don’t need a reminder email for my vaccination appointment, but if I did, it sure ought to arrive before the appointment.

The experience of booking an online ticket (flight, train, concert, hotel, bnb, event, you name it) feels too spammy today, involving half a dozen emails per transaction.

A typical email wave goes like this:

  • “Thank you for purchasing / attending / coming! Here’s your ticket.”
  • Your Invoice
  • Your payment confirmation (especially when using an external service such as PayPal)
  • A few days before the event / trip: a reminder
  • The day before (or the same day): another reminder
  • If it’s a flight ticket, expect even more emails: flight safety instructions (e.g. what you cannot bring in your luggage), “the check-in is now open! You can now choose your seat” (for a fee)

In addition, I often snooze the initial email to a day before the event takes place, so that’s another one.

I’m a responsible adult with a digital calendar.

I appreciate the reminders, but I do not need them. For me, they end up becoming notification spam, resembling ads – I do not want to keep your company in my mind all the time.